“You’ll be really glad you got in touch.” 

Edward has supported our charity in many ways over the years. Most recently, he honoured the memory of his beloved wife, Margaret, by dedicating a heart as part of our Heart of Memories appeal. Weather permitting, Edward continues to visit, spending quiet moments in our garden remembering her. 

He shared why our hospice is so special to him and why he supports us.  

“I support the charity because of the help you gave me and Margaret. 

“The hospice helped her enjoy life and be free from pain. And the staff had time to spend with us, listen and advise. It was truly personalised care. 

“I also had peace of mind that she was being looked after properly. And it meant I could go shopping and have a meal out. 

Long standing supporters 

Edward and Margaret moved to Stafford in 1989, just after our hospice first opened and supported us from the start.  

But it wasn’t until 2019 that they needed to use our services themselves.  

Early that year, Margaret was diagnosed with cancer. After chemotherapy, she experienced severe back pain and spent ten days in the hospital. 

Edward told us: “During her stay, she was given pain medication, but it was sometimes delayed because only certain staff could administer it.” 

Just before Margaret returned home, she was referred to us.  

Care at home 

Our palliative care team got in touch straightaway, and specialist nurse Clare  visited the couple at home. 

“Clare came out very quickly and was very friendly and helpful,” Edward recalls.  

“She helped Margaret with her pain and was with us from that point on. She reassured us that whenever Margaret needed help with pain relief, she would be there for us. 

“Margaret was impressed straight away. She felt there was someone interested in her, that she could trust and rely on. And that proved to be the case.” 

Care at the hospice 

When she was feeling well enough, Margaret visited the hospice and soon came under the care of our outpatients’ team.  

“Margaret loved it, she made lots of good friends and enjoyed relaxation and craft activities,” Edward explained.  

“She liked everyone she met and went every Wednesday and got involved in many different activities. They made greeting cards and enjoyed mindful colouring and socialising; Margaret really enjoyed it. 

Edward appreciated support too, with regular contact from Dr Sue and Nurse Clare. Sadly, Margaret passed away shortly after Christmas.  

Heart of Memories 

“To remember her. I have a heart on the memories sculpture and visit whenever I can. It’s restful and peaceful in the garden.  

“It’s a lovely tribute to Margaret and I like talking to the gardener; he’s kind and not imposing.” 

“I would say to anyone living with an incurable illness, don’t hesitate to get in touch with the hospice. You don’t have to be referred by your doctor. It can be another health professional, or you can ring them yourself or ask a family member. 

“You’ll be really glad you got in touch.”